tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54770516118799416162024-02-08T08:22:26.845-06:00Flirting Tips - The Art Of FlirtingDutchBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16742862143883690616noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477051611879941616.post-75992707804952079012008-03-06T19:29:00.005-06:002008-08-31T21:22:06.117-05:00Art of Flirting: The Art of Flirting is Something Everyone Should KnowThere is nothing more sad than remembering a crush that you had in which you did nothing about it, only to find out after it was too late that the person felt the same way but was just waiting for you to make a move. You definitely don’t want such a thing to happen again if you think you’ve found a new love interest, and you can make sure it doesn’t happen again by learning the <a href="http://the-flirting-tips.blogspot.com/2008/03/art-of-flirting-art-of-flirting-is.html"><span style="font-style: italic;">art of flirting</span></a>.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The <span style="font-style: italic;">Art of Flirting</span> Starts with Knowing About Yourself</span><br /><br />The old adage is true: you can’t love another until you truly love yourself. The same is true when it comes to the <span style="font-style: italic;">art of flirting</span>. Before you decide to give the art of flirting a try for the first time, carefully consider what kinds of flirting tactics would work well with you. Would you like it if someone came up to you and started a friendly conversation, or would that make you uncomfortable?<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The <span style="font-style: italic;">Art of Flirting</span> is All About Subtlety</span><br /><br />Although some people like it when people aggressively flirt with them, <span style="font-weight: bold;">the true <span style="font-style: italic;">art of flirting</span></span> is based upon subtlety. If you see someone who you are interested in, give them a stare that says you find them attractive. However, do not stare too long, because that can be rather uncomfortable. Also, if you already know the person, start inserting little compliments into the conversations that you two have.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The <span style="font-style: italic;">Art of Flirting</span> Leaves a Person Wanting More</span><br /><br />Along the same lines of being subtle, it is important for you to flirt in a way that indicates possible seduction. This should only be attempted once you have established that the other person is, in fact, single. However, when your flirting gets to that sensual point, pull back a bit. No, you’re not being a tease; you’re actually making things better, by showing the other person what you’re capable of, and that might increase the other person’s curiosity and interest.<br /><br />While sometimes it is important for people to try new things, when it comes to <a href="http://the-flirting-tips.blogspot.com/">the <span style="font-style: italic;">art of flirting</span></a>, you should start with the techniques you feel the most comfortable with. After all, dating can be stressful enough. So, when it comes to <span style="font-weight: bold;">the true <span style="font-style: italic;">art of flirting</span></span>, just be yourself, and if the person doesn’t seem interested, then they simply weren’t the right person for you anyway!DutchBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16742862143883690616noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477051611879941616.post-21078652335828163532008-01-31T10:51:00.002-06:002008-08-31T21:21:33.581-05:00Seduction Techniques - How To Find The Best Seduction TechniquesThere are many <a href="http://the-flirting-tips.blogspot.com/2008/01/seduction-techniques-how-to-find-best.html"><span style="font-style: italic;">seduction techniques</span></a> used by both men and women to allure and attract your partner some of whom are practicable and will almost always bring you the desired results where others are not approved but yet enjoyed when practiced by others.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Seduction Techniques - How To Find The Best Seduction Techniques</span><br /><br />Here are some common <span style="font-style: italic;">seduction techniques</span>, which you may have used before and some seduction techniques that are right and will always bring appreciation if not results.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Unwritten Rule In Seduction</span><br /><br />Whenever you are thinking of applying a seduction technique remember what you may find appealing and always ensure that the person who you are about to seduce reciprocates you feelings or else you may be set for disappointment right from the start.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Common Seduction Techniques</span><br /><br />A common seduction technique used by both men and women that we should not really use but unfortunately works most times is flattery. Unfortunately both men and women enjoy being the center of attraction as well as praise especially from your partner or person you admire in turn and/or love.<br /><br />Another common seduction technique, which always works when applied at the right time and place is dressing provocatively; this particular technique works mostly on men as women usually are not as aroused by visuals as men are however, women usually will respond to sharp dressed men such as tuxedo and impeccable manners.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What Types Of <span style="font-style: italic;">Seduction Techniques</span> Work</span><br /><br />Create a romantic atmosphere that you know he or she will enjoys and appreciates for example, if your partner does not drink alcoholic beverages, it does not make sense to get a bottle of wine in your plan to seduce him or her. Creating the right mood is very important as once the mind is set in the romantic mode it is more likely that your seduction techniques will be successful.<br /><br />Know when to be seductive and when to hold on as it is important that your partner is in the right mood as well for example, as a general rule, which may not apply to all, men usually are easier to arouse and thus, easier to seduce when you apply the right techniques however women may need a little bit more work and part of getting there is to ensure that her mood is in the same page as yours.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Tip On How To Find <a style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" href="http://the-flirting-tips.blogspot.com/2008/01/seduction-techniques-how-to-find-best.html"><span style="font-style: italic;">The Best Seduction Techniques</span></a></span>...<br /><br />Knowing your partner will help you develop the right <span style="font-style: italic;">seduction techniques</span> that will be best for him or her. There are many general seductions suggestions that seem to work well generally but which your partner may not find as appealing, therefore find your partner’s secrets first and that will lead you to <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0452270863?ie=UTF8&tag=dig0f-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0452270863">the best seduction techniques</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=dig0f-20&l=as2&o=1&a=0452270863" alt="" style="border: medium none ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" border="0" height="1" width="1" />.DutchBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16742862143883690616noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477051611879941616.post-53840651072146483642007-08-05T20:27:00.002-05:002008-08-31T21:20:40.951-05:00Seduction Tips That Will Work For Both Men And WomenSeduction is an art that needs to be done precisely in order to obtain any results from both men and women. Here are a few <a href="http://the-flirting-tips.blogspot.com/2007/08/seduction-tips-that-will-work-for-both.html"><span style="font-weight: bold;">seduction tips</span></a> that I hope will help you seduce your partner successfully every single time.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >Create The Mood</span><br /><br />Probably the most important part in seduction is creating the atmosphere in order to set the right mood. There are many ways in which you can set the right atmosphere and it is up to you to decide how elaborate to be; you can start by having a candle lit diner, it is important it is candle lit because or at least you dim the lights in the dining area as dim lights always bring a romantic allure.<br /><br />If you don’t feel like cooking a candle light diner, which does take a lot of work you can set the mood after a normal diner by reaching for a bottle of wine and some crackers, slow music, which you must ensure that is what he or she likes.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >Dress To Seduce</span><br /><br />The next <a href="http://the-flirting-tips.blogspot.com/2007/08/seduction-tips-that-will-work-for-both.html">seduction tip</a> is dressing for the occasion, which is as important especially for men who are aroused by visuals therefore get in the right lingerie and be as provocative as possible in your talks and actions.<br /><br />If however, you don’t want to be too direct the nest seduction tip will take you to apply a massage to your partner; you can apply a massage on the whole body or on a particular part of the body for example, for women men can start being seductive by giving them a foot massage.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >Prepare The Bedroom</span><br /><br />Yet another great seduction tip will lead you straight to be bedroom where you don’t have to do much but ensure that you have satin or silk sheets, dim light or scented candles and music of choice; champagne or a glass of wine is always welcome as long as both you and your partner enjoy it.<br /><br />However, if you have missed the diner, after diner, and the bedroom seduction possibilities, here is a seduction tip that you can use on your partner when in bed or even when he or she is asleep; a light massage or caress can awake the senses of both men and women and it is probably the most successful <a href="http://the-flirting-tips.blogspot.com/2007/08/seduction-tips-that-will-work-for-both.html">seduction tip</a> of all because you are having direct contact with the person by touching the skin, which automatically awakes the senses.DutchBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16742862143883690616noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477051611879941616.post-79281745475820406302007-02-10T21:03:00.002-06:002008-08-31T21:19:43.442-05:00About Speed Seduction<span style="font-weight: bold;">When Is Speed Seduction Appropriate?</span><br /><br />The art of seduction is very time sensitive, and sometimes it can be hard to gauge how much is too much too soon. But occasionally you might not have a lot of time to communicate your interest in someone, so you might have to make your flirting a <span style="font-weight: bold;">speed seduction</span>. Speed seduction should be used only in cases where you have a small window to flirt with someone.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Departures</span><br /><br />If you’ve been trying to flirt with someone all evening, and they suddenly announce their departure, this is a great time to <span style="font-weight: bold;">employ your speed seduction</span>. Be blunt with speed seduction. You don’t have time to drop subtle hints and wait for someone to take your bait. When the person in questions announces that they’re leaving, try offering to escort them outside. Say something like “<span style="font-style: italic;">I’m so glad to walk you about because I’ve been trying to get your attention all evening.</span>” Then present an opportunity for the two of you to casually meet up again. If you have mutual friends try to plan an event you can both attend. Otherwise, suggest an opportunity to get together, like coffee or lunch.<br /><br />Don’t go <span style="font-weight: bold;">too far with your speed seduction</span>, since you don’t have time to allow your interested party to warm up to you. Make your invitation light, something the person can be comfortable doing with you without knowing you very much at all.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Chance Encounters</span><br /><br />You pop into the deli by your office for lunch and strike up a conversation with an incredibly attractive person about the best sandwiches to try. You’ve got to get back to the office for a meeting, but you’ve also got to see this person again. Employ <span style="font-weight: bold;">a little speed seduction</span> to ensure this can happen. If you have a business card on you, make sure you give it to them and just mention that you’re always open for good lunch company. Or just say you have to run, but ask them if they’d like to meet you at the same place tomorrow for a sandwich. <span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />Speed seduction is crucial</span> in the event of change encounters because you didn’t anticipate this person’s presence, and you need to create an opportunity to see them again. Be tactful.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Large Crowds</span><br /><br />Another appropriate <span style="font-weight: bold;">situation to employ speed seduction</span> is in a crowded place. You’ve bumped into someone you find very attractive and you’re afraid you’re going to lose them in the crowd, or they’re searching for friends and have to move away from you. Be blunt without being too overt. Ask them if you can buy them drink if appropriate in the situation, or if necessary just ask them if you can give them your phone number to chat at a more opportune time. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Speed seduction is your only hope</span> in this case.DutchBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16742862143883690616noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477051611879941616.post-87974098062028990522007-02-03T20:15:00.002-06:002008-08-31T21:18:25.850-05:00Supervise Internet Teen Seduction<span style="font-weight: bold;">How To Supervise Internet Teen Seduction </span><br /><br />Teenagers enjoy seduction games and practices even though most of the times they don’t mean them but will do them on a challenge and/or to see what the outcome will be; the Internet has become a main source of meeting people and a dangerous place for <span style="font-weight: bold;">teen seduction</span>. Here are some tips on how to monitor your teenager’s activities on the Internet and also ensure that he or she will never be a <span style="font-weight: bold;">teen seduction victim</span>.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Talk To Your Teenagers</span><br /><br />Today one can find everything and anything in the Internet especially meeting people; teenagers are the number one target, as they are often gullible and will fall for the <span style="font-weight: bold;">teen seduction techniques </span>some Internet predators practice. It is extremely important that you talk to your teenagers and make them aware of such dangers and how to spot them.<br /><br />If your teenager is planning to meet someone from the Internet in person ensure you get someone to go along if your child does not want you to accompany him or her; always make your teenager have a mobile phone that is switched on him or her in case of any emergency.<br /><br />Try to be as open as possible with your teenager and you may have the possibility to be asked of your opinion his or her Internet friends however, teenagers usually like to be secretive about such things and you need to be very intuitive and at times make your child speak to you for his or her own safety.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Report Teen Seduction</span><br /><br />If you suspect any <span style="font-weight: bold;">abnormal teen seduction</span> on the Internet of otherwise, report it immediately as the person may have just barely got away and could try it again on yet another teenager.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Helpful Tip</span><br /><br />Remember that your teenager is an adult and treat him or her like one if you want to become his or her friend and you may have the change to know first hand of any <span style="font-weight: bold;">teen seduction happening on the Internet</span> or otherwise. However, also respect the fact that teenagers explore the sexual life for the first time and are attracted to any and every little piece of information <span style="font-weight: bold;">especially on teen seduction</span>.<br /><br />As part of your sexual lesson chat with your child it is also important that you mention about seduction and how it works, as briefly or as in detail as you feel comfortable; you can also provide your child with books on the subject and invite him or her to chat with you if he or she has any questions.DutchBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16742862143883690616noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477051611879941616.post-39551257533294903342007-01-19T20:03:00.002-06:002008-08-31T21:18:00.252-05:00Info On Flirting Skills<span style="font-weight: bold;">Do You Think Flirting Skills Come Naturally?</span><br /><br />Flirting is an art, but one that nearly every person has, or can achieve at some point in their lives. There is no right or wrong way to flirt, and as long as a person has the ability to express how they feel about someone, they don’t need any special <span style="font-weight: bold;">flirting skills</span>. Flirting has been around as long as people have, because it is the basis of what was once known as courtship. Courtship was once the way people demonstrated their attraction to another person and that is the basis of flirting as well.<br /><br />Throughout the years, flirting has changed in its nature, as it has gone from very proper and official for serious relationship prospects to flirting with anyone who may be somewhat attractive and spark someone’s interest. While there is no <span style="font-weight: bold;">scientific basis to flirting skills</span>, there are a number of things that have proven to be effective in most cases. The following two paragraphs will break down the <span style="font-weight: bold;">basics of flirting skills</span> for both males and females.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">So Here Are Some Flirting Skills for Women...</span><br /><br />Presuming that men are the aim of a <span style="font-weight: bold;">woman’s flirting</span>, they can do a great deal to get a man’s attention. Confidence seems to be what almost all men say they find attractive in a woman. Women who exude confidence tend to be set in their ways and beliefs, and a guy can count on them having an opinion and thus interesting interactions. Not only that, but when a man gives a girl a compliment, he likes to know she appreciates it instead of not believing him.<br /><br />Eye contact is also important when it comes to flirting. You need to let your interest know that you are pursuing them without a doubt. Some say the eyes are the windows to the soul, and hence letting someone see that will undoubtedly spark their interest. Dropping hints about someone’s appearance or characteristics can be another way to let them know you’re interested. Finally, a gentle touch on the shoulder or the back can be appropriate, but can also be risky as some people will shy away from touch and become offended. It’s a fine line, but if you find that other <span style="font-weight: bold;">flirting skills aren’t working</span>, you may wish to try a gentle touch.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">And Ofcourse Some Flirting Skills for Men...</span><br /><br />Men are frequently at risk for being too overt or offensive when it comes to <span style="font-weight: bold;">flirting with women</span>, but there are ways to attract a woman’s attention without causing affront. Because women are intuitive, men don’t have to do much to show they are interested. A little compliment goes a long way, and that is often the key to getting her attention.<br /><br />Women love to be told they are beautiful or attractive, smart or intelligent, but only when the compliment is genuine. Women like to be doted over, but not too much because it then becomes annoying and appears fake. A light hand on the shoulder or back can make her melt, but in good time.<br /><br />Rushing into a <span style="font-weight: bold;">physical dimension of flirting</span> can be considered aggressive and will turn her off quickly. Your best bet is to look her in the eye with a genuine smile and a sparkle in your eye. Making her lock her gaze on you will let you both know if there is a possible connection, so that you can move forward accordingly. There is <span style="font-weight: bold;">no right or wrong way to flirt</span>, it just takes a little intuition and determination to make it work. That's all...<br /><br />So, good luck or should I say: ''<span style="font-style: italic;">To your flirting succes...</span>''DutchBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16742862143883690616noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477051611879941616.post-57791523202390744752007-01-09T17:46:00.002-06:002008-08-31T21:19:04.833-05:00Text Flirting<span style="font-weight: bold;">Chivalry is Not Dead: Letter Writing is the Best Form of Text Flirting</span><br /><br />In modern society, if you heard the word “<span style="font-style: italic;">text</span>,” most likely you would equate it with text messages on a cell phone. However, long before technology, the word “<span style="font-style: italic;">text</span>” referred to the written word. For hundred of years, many things were handwritten. Thus, when you’re looking to bring a little romance into your life, why not be old-fashioned and do some <span style="font-weight: bold;">text flirting</span> letter-style.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Text Flirting Requires the Proper Paper</span><br /><br />If you decide to do some <span style="font-weight: bold;">text flirting in the form of a letter</span> to the object of your affection, you must have the proper paper. Although words are what hold the most power in text flirting, if you wrote a wonderful letter on a piece of loose-leaf paper, chances are your words will lose a little of their magic.<br /><br />So, when you decided to do some <span style="font-weight: bold;">text flirting letter-style</span>, be sure you get some nice paper. Ideas include the decorative paper that you see for printers in office supply stores, or buy a nice stationery set.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Text Flirting Requires the Proper Writing Instrument</span><br /><br />If you were to write a letter with just a regular pen or pencil that could be smudged, that would be rather boring. Instead, make your words come alive by buying a gel pen in a unique color! Or, if you want to be really unique, and already know how to use one, purchase a calligraphy pen.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Text Flirting Requires the Proper Words</span><br /><br />Most importantly, any text flirting that you do letter-style needs to be written in the right words. You don’t have to be Shakespeare, just be sure that whatever it is you decide to write expresses your feelings in a way that is not too overbearing. After all, <span style="font-weight: bold;">the point of flirting</span> is to be subtle!<br /><br />If writing is a talent of yours, then use that talent to your advantage. Write your loved one a poem, or do an acrostic using the letters of their name, in which you list all the things you admire about them.<br /><br />For many years, the greatest love stories in literature featured their main characters <span style="font-weight: bold;">writing affectionate letters</span> to each other. Indeed, writing a letter is a much more personal way to express your feelings, because technology, although fun, often results in romantic words being rather statically conveyed. So try your hand at letter writing. No doubt the object of your affection will appreciate it.DutchBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16742862143883690616noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477051611879941616.post-85955389291864062292006-12-30T17:42:00.001-06:002008-08-31T21:19:21.994-05:00Text Message Flirting<span style="font-weight: bold;">Text Message Flirting – The New Proposal?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Text messaging is a form of communication</span> that has swept the nation in a tornado-like manner. It seems as though just about everyone from the age of nine has a cellular phone (or access to one) equipped with text messaging functions. While this was only a new and novel idea less than ten years ago, many people now use this as their primary form of communication. People use text messaging to give quick messages, have full conversations, tell stories, argue and even flirt.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Text message flirting</span> seems to just happen, as opposed to it being a planned action. Emoticons, faces and abbreviations allow words coming across a screen to become close to real-life conversation, and hence the increasing popularity. Text messaging is a way for people to save their voice, safe precious allotted minutes, and avoid the occasional awkwardness of talking face to face.<br /><br />The last mentioned benefit is one that comes into play when text message flirting is involved. Flirting can be awkward and many people are afraid of getting rejected, so flirting via text message is a safe way to show your interest without the fear of being turned down. The following information will allow you to understand the basics of text message flirting, as well as give you some venues for doing so.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Where to and How to Flirt Via Text Message</span><br /><br />Most every cell phone company has an option for text messaging. It may be included in a package or you may have to pay per text message. Either way, if you have someone to flirt with, you can flirt via text messaging. Flirting with text messages can be intentional or incidental, as often conversations turn into a form of flirting, especially if there is attraction on at least one of the parties.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Text message flirting</span> may include giving compliments, dropping subtle hints, making cute faces such as smiley faces, winking eyes or puckered lip faces, or being completely overt and letting someone know how you feel. Each person flirts differently via text messaging, and it really depends on the person’s personality, the person they are flirting with and the situation.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The venue for flirting</span> via text messaging can be based upon people already in a cell phone address book, online chat via text messaging, and special services just for cell phone companies that give a person a number of others to chat with. Companies like UPOC make chat-room like environments available for text messaging on cell phones, and they can be found with nearly every cellular company. In short, there are tons of places a person can pursue their desire for text message flirting, they just need to open their eyes, as they are available everywhere.DutchBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16742862143883690616noreply@blogger.com0