Info On Flirting Skills

Do You Think Flirting Skills Come Naturally?

Flirting is an art, but one that nearly every person has, or can achieve at some point in their lives. There is no right or wrong way to flirt, and as long as a person has the ability to express how they feel about someone, they don’t need any special flirting skills. Flirting has been around as long as people have, because it is the basis of what was once known as courtship. Courtship was once the way people demonstrated their attraction to another person and that is the basis of flirting as well.

Throughout the years, flirting has changed in its nature, as it has gone from very proper and official for serious relationship prospects to flirting with anyone who may be somewhat attractive and spark someone’s interest. While there is no scientific basis to flirting skills, there are a number of things that have proven to be effective in most cases. The following two paragraphs will break down the basics of flirting skills for both males and females.

So Here Are Some Flirting Skills for Women...

Presuming that men are the aim of a woman’s flirting, they can do a great deal to get a man’s attention. Confidence seems to be what almost all men say they find attractive in a woman. Women who exude confidence tend to be set in their ways and beliefs, and a guy can count on them having an opinion and thus interesting interactions. Not only that, but when a man gives a girl a compliment, he likes to know she appreciates it instead of not believing him.

Eye contact is also important when it comes to flirting. You need to let your interest know that you are pursuing them without a doubt. Some say the eyes are the windows to the soul, and hence letting someone see that will undoubtedly spark their interest. Dropping hints about someone’s appearance or characteristics can be another way to let them know you’re interested. Finally, a gentle touch on the shoulder or the back can be appropriate, but can also be risky as some people will shy away from touch and become offended. It’s a fine line, but if you find that other flirting skills aren’t working, you may wish to try a gentle touch.

And Ofcourse Some Flirting Skills for Men...

Men are frequently at risk for being too overt or offensive when it comes to flirting with women, but there are ways to attract a woman’s attention without causing affront. Because women are intuitive, men don’t have to do much to show they are interested. A little compliment goes a long way, and that is often the key to getting her attention.

Women love to be told they are beautiful or attractive, smart or intelligent, but only when the compliment is genuine. Women like to be doted over, but not too much because it then becomes annoying and appears fake. A light hand on the shoulder or back can make her melt, but in good time.

Rushing into a physical dimension of flirting can be considered aggressive and will turn her off quickly. Your best bet is to look her in the eye with a genuine smile and a sparkle in your eye. Making her lock her gaze on you will let you both know if there is a possible connection, so that you can move forward accordingly. There is no right or wrong way to flirt, it just takes a little intuition and determination to make it work. That's all...

So, good luck or should I say: ''To your flirting succes...''