About Speed Seduction

When Is Speed Seduction Appropriate?

The art of seduction is very time sensitive, and sometimes it can be hard to gauge how much is too much too soon. But occasionally you might not have a lot of time to communicate your interest in someone, so you might have to make your flirting a speed seduction. Speed seduction should be used only in cases where you have a small window to flirt with someone.

Departures

If you’ve been trying to flirt with someone all evening, and they suddenly announce their departure, this is a great time to employ your speed seduction. Be blunt with speed seduction. You don’t have time to drop subtle hints and wait for someone to take your bait. When the person in questions announces that they’re leaving, try offering to escort them outside. Say something like “I’m so glad to walk you about because I’ve been trying to get your attention all evening.” Then present an opportunity for the two of you to casually meet up again. If you have mutual friends try to plan an event you can both attend. Otherwise, suggest an opportunity to get together, like coffee or lunch.

Don’t go too far with your speed seduction, since you don’t have time to allow your interested party to warm up to you. Make your invitation light, something the person can be comfortable doing with you without knowing you very much at all.

Chance Encounters

You pop into the deli by your office for lunch and strike up a conversation with an incredibly attractive person about the best sandwiches to try. You’ve got to get back to the office for a meeting, but you’ve also got to see this person again. Employ a little speed seduction to ensure this can happen. If you have a business card on you, make sure you give it to them and just mention that you’re always open for good lunch company. Or just say you have to run, but ask them if they’d like to meet you at the same place tomorrow for a sandwich.

Speed seduction is crucial in the event of change encounters because you didn’t anticipate this person’s presence, and you need to create an opportunity to see them again. Be tactful.

Large Crowds

Another appropriate situation to employ speed seduction is in a crowded place. You’ve bumped into someone you find very attractive and you’re afraid you’re going to lose them in the crowd, or they’re searching for friends and have to move away from you. Be blunt without being too overt. Ask them if you can buy them drink if appropriate in the situation, or if necessary just ask them if you can give them your phone number to chat at a more opportune time. Speed seduction is your only hope in this case.